Advising Family when they ask "How Do I Convince Mom She Needs Placement?"

It can be challenging to convince a loved one that they need assisted living, particularly if they are resistant to the idea. Often times family members recognize that their mom or dad need AL options, but parents are reluctant. No-one wants to leave their own home but assisted living exists because their own home is no longer safe or the right fit to continue residing in.

Here are a few strategies you might consider telling potential family members when trying to convince them and their parents that assisted living is the best option for them:

1. Encourage them to get Educated: The more they know about assisted living, the better equipped you will be to address their concerns and questions. Have them research the different types of assisted living options and the services they offer, and be prepared to explain how your assisted living home stands out from the competition and how your RAL can help their parents maintain their independence and quality of life.

2. Emphasize the benefits: Focus on the benefits of assisted living, such as the availability of personal care and medical assistance, social and recreational activities, and the opportunity to be part of a supportive community. Explain how assisted living can help their parents live more comfortably and securely.

3. Involve parents in the decision-making process: Invite the family and parents to visit assisted living facilities with you and allow them to be involved in the decision-making process as much as possible. This can help them feel more in control and more likely to accept the idea of assisted living.

4. Seek support from other family members and healthcare professionals: Consider enlisting the help of other family members and healthcare professionals, such as your parents' doctor, to help make the case for assisted living. They may be able to provide additional perspective and support.

5. Consider a trial period: If the seniors are still hesitant, you might consider suggesting a trial period in which they try assisted living for a short time. This can help them see the benefits firsthand and make it easier for them to make a decision.

It's important to approach the conversation with parents in a respectful and understanding way, and to be prepared to listen to their concerns and address them. With patience and persistence, you may be able to convince seniors that assisted living is the best choice for them.